Maybe love will make you alert enough to see everything, but think carefully about dating him while you may terminate the relationship with his wife.
If you're falling into this relationship, consider seriously about these things, because maybe you'll be disadvantaged and suffer the most:
Missed opportunities
The man had a wife may tell you that he loves you or even tell you that his wife had never brought him feel just like you.
However, be careful with these words, by speaking out, he need not commit to anything with you.There may come a time when he will again turn on, say can not leave his wife and children. Then you will do if this relationship has been extended over the years? Surely you have missed many opportunities to find and marry the real love of his life.
Thus, in this relationship you will always be waiting and suffering because you can not know for sure when he will divorce his wife to come to you.
Will he be reliable?
The man married dating another girl mean, who himself is not honest with his wife. Are you sure later on he will not deceive you? And he's like when people have respiratory wife still with you?
Maybe he would denounce his wife as a woman "horrible" and there are many other bad traits, but how can you know it's true? And if his wife really "terrible", you should ask questions about the seriousness and his cautious in recognizing and selecting a mate.
Does that man with a lack of responsibility in choosing a mate for themselves may be responsible for others?
Guilt of a third
When he was dating, you can not understand the nature of his relationship with his wife. However, if you put yourself in his wife's position, how you would feel betrayed if their husbands to come with another girl? In this case, you are interrupted on Tuesday who happily married to others. Therefore, whether to be with him, sometimes you can not avoid feeling guilty when I think about this.
Be more disadvantaged
When dating a man with a wife, not you always be with him. Weekends, holidays, New Year ... when the couple are always together, he could be busy for the excuse to spend time with their children and their families. Even you can not call him anytime, especially when he is at home. Meanwhile, the loneliness will make you feel depressed because so many have sacrificed for this relationship.
According Afamily
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