Guess she knows how to think about your behavior is certainly not an easy thing. How to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and keep your love?
Most misunderstandings and disputes arise because one of them has completely misunderstood something. If you react excessively or doing something that she misunderstood the change that is not completely dependent on you. Finally, you can not always prevent what she saw. But you can completely prevent a tragedy by noted some typical misconceptions as well so you'll always be the master of the situation.
You forgot to give her the key to your apartment
What you do: You have to work for hours and still very much unfinished undertaking, that thought gave her the key to your apartment "slippery" out of your mind.
What she saw: the hesitation of you. In her mind, then give her the keys is a simple thing to you that she worried that your procrastination might be a sign of something more serious. For example, you could just not have the courage to tell her that you're really not ready to live with her under one roof.
What you should do: It's time to find out your true feelings are. Is there really any other reason, outside distractions, explain about you "forget" the key to her? Ask yourself whether you really want to open her own invitation by entering your personal space or not? If the answer is yes then do not hesitate to give her the key. If you still feel hesitant, explain clearly why she knows you still want to "jump" of the committed couple.
Talking to her house keys (Artwork)
Turn off the phone or stop sending messages
What you do: you two talked a long time, but if you want to end the conversation, you say, "Wishing you good night" and hung up the ruble immediately before the "shock" did not understand what happened out of her. In fact, you usually end the conversation before.
What she found: Or is she making you bored, or simply do not want to take time to nurture relationships through common means of communication is.
What you should do: Make it clear to her that you are not a person likes to talk on the phone and you'd be face to face to talk to her more. That way, she will not feel disrespectful. Make sure that the two will have a very interesting conversation when she met to know that you really want to learn more about her.
Keep in touch with an ex-girlfriend
What you do: You and your ex-girlfriend exchanged a few messages and plan a meeting chatted.
What she saw: A threat may be "seeds" for infidelity in the future. Have you ever had "a history" with this woman, so your girlfriend can not help but worry that romantic chapter may occur.
What you should do: Decide whether the relationship between you and your girlfriend is and what you hope to achieve from it. Usually the misunderstandings caused by lack of information, so please specify a contact for yourself and then convey it to her. This will help prevent further her own interpretation incorrect way.
Tell me about a woman other
What you do: Not very big deal. You two are talking, you casually mention something about Michelle in the office, or you talk about one of your best friends.
What she saw: You are a "desire" with a friend who always appear in conversations. It's called the "syndrome of inter-process-prompt."
Do not let her worry about the other woman (Artwork)
What you should do: In the future, try to "bend your tongue seven times" before speaking. However, if you want to share something with his girlfriend, always remember that it's easy to be misleading unless you are clearly an important factor related to the details in the story that you the matter. If you see a close friend in the group meetings, make sure you mention the details are extremely important to her that you do not have to worry about.
The phone in another room
What you do: You can not hear people talking about the other end, or you simply think that will less vulgar than if you receive a call outside the restaurant. What she saw: She thought you might be hiding something.
What you should do: Take the phone in the room, in the presence of her. That would make her see that she had nothing to fear but on the contrary, would make her want you to receive calls outside when you become too noisy.
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